How Can You Stop Feeling Like You are Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship?
How Can You Get Out of the Cycle of Trying to Be Heard and Fighting Your Way Back to Love?
Has your relationship become an energy draining existence instead of a fulfilling source of inner happiness?
I know these feelings only too well. I’ve been there.
How Can You Stop Feeling Like You are Walking on Eggshells in Your Relationship?
How Can You Get Out of the Cycle of Trying to Be Heard and Fighting Your Way Back to Love?
Has your relationship become an energy draining existence instead of a fulfilling source of inner happiness?
Has your relationship become an energy draining existence instead of a fulfilling source of inner happiness?
I know these feelings only too well. I’ve been there.
Hello, I am Eri Kardos and happy to meet you.
A few years ago, I did not feel the ‘true me’ deserved love. I was struggling every day trying to present a version of me that I thought would be deserving of love. Because people were loving my facade, I felt the love I did receive was not genuine. This was exhausting and led to internal conflict which continually spilled over into my relationship.
Have you ever had these torturous thoughts?
- Am I too needy? Too jealous? Too insecure?
- Why don’t I ever feel good enough or accepted?
- Why doesn’t my partner listen to me?
- If I make strong boundaries, will I just be abandoned?
- Is now the right time for me to plan my escape?
The majority of relationships end in break ups. Marriages are failing at historical rates in the last two years with well more than half ending in divorce.
All This Is Not Your Fault!
Out of everything in our lives, love is important to every single one of us. Yet out of all we do throughout life, love is often where we are the least educated and the most confused.
Love is so tied to the emotional side. You expect to just feel your way to a life of love. After all you are “supposed” to be naturally good at love because the movies makes love look so easy, right?
Where did you learn love?
For the vast majority, love was modeled by our parents, who had watched their parents and so on. You might also have learned a few things about love from your religious community. And like most everyone, you were probably unconsciously strongly influenced by pop-culture and fairy tales.
Most people just try to ‘figure out love on the fly.’ We just follow along when this powerful emotion strikes. We often never realize the consequences of not knowing how to love until relationships have ended.
My heart breaks to see wonderful people end up alone because they are afraid that ‘love will hurt them again’.
Or feel alone in the relationship they are already in.
Watching families fall apart because ‘the love isn’t strong enough’
or they’re tired of the ‘constant fights’, is also distressing.
I knew there had to be a way to escape this frustrating and sometimes even destructive cycle.
For several years I worked passionately and diligently studying love and relationships. When I went to the root of how most all of us have learned how to love, (through parental examples, children’s fairy tales, and Hollywood movies) I realized how ill equipped we really are to ever succeed in a healthy love relationship.
I realized almost everyone needs to ‘relearn love.’
Now after years of work I discovered a new way to love, created a breakthrough program that has helped thousands of people around the world to relearn love. You too can have incredible relationships without pretending, struggling, or worrying.
You can be loved unconditionally, exactly for who you are, and love can be easy
(and peaceful)!
You can have love…beautiful love, free of judgements and conditions where you can be your true self in harmony with others.
Now I am in a deeply loving conscious, adaptive, and nourishing relationship. People are always asking me what they can do to get that same kind of love for themselves.
From all my years of work, I have created a breakthrough method for you:
Couples Private coaching PROGRAM
The Relearn Love™ private couple’s coaching program will help you develop a more meaningful lifestyle in the holistic sense. We look at how our patterns hold us back in our relationships and other areas in our lives including careers, friendships, family, and purpose.
During our weekly sessions together, you will:
• Fall in love even more deeply with each other
• Learn what your emotions have been trying to tell you so that you both feel connected and understood
• Get more in touch with each other’s bodies to experience true intimacy in a whole new way
• Learn how to identify what you desire most, ask for it, and receive it so that you both feel chosen by each other
• Set healthy boundaries
• Laugh together as you discover new ways of deepening connection through co-creating adventures and joy
• Learn effective communication skills, including how to navigate conflict
• Learn the simple tools and practices for feeling like you are on the same team, co-creating towards a future that you are both excited about.
The Relearn Love private couple’s coaching program is for you if you want to:
♥ Recognize & break unhealthy old patterns and create healthier ways of dating and relating
♥ Feel confident in who you are, what you want, and the love you are attracting and creating
♥ Know how to ask for and get what you want
♥ Be empowered to take (more) control of your life and your ability to be in the long term, loving relationship you desire
♥ Have fun together, share more everyday playfulness, and continue to get to know new sides of each other
♥ Feel safe in being authentically YOU!
A Little More About Eri
Eri Kardos is one of the most highly-referred relationship coaches globally working with clients across 6 continents ranging from top tech executives and Hollywood celebrities to ordinary people living extraordinary lives. She is known for her passion for helping powerful people create even more powerful relationships.
Eri is the author of the best-selling book, Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and Increasing Intimacy to Design Your Ideal Relationship.
Eri is a former leadership development professional at Amazon.com. She received her MBA in Global Leadership from the #1 international business school in the world.
Eri’s specialty is helping people elevate their relationships for deeper, more intimate and fulfilling connections. Eri’s seemingly magical methods spark old and new passion, take you to new places of intimacy, and melt away the patterns of conflict.
Eri provides private video and phone coaching sessions to clients around the world. In addition, she offers in-person facilitated retreats and fully guided intensives to help individuals and couples create the relationships and life they desire.
“I just wanted to take a minute to say thank you. I’m so very grateful for you and for what you’ve been in my life. I’m blown away that somebody I have never met in person, high-fived or hugged has had such a personal, intimate and profound impact on my life. I am very grateful to have you and for the impact you have had on my life, and our lives, and us as a couple. I see the evidence of your impact and I know we are now capable of handling anything that comes our way. I’m so grateful for you. Thank you for all of the things!!!!”
– Steven & Mee
Colorado
“It’s my joy and honor to guide you along your journey.”
– Eri Kardos
Your Invitation:
I hereby personally invite you to join my Relearn Love™ program. This is a unique experience designed for every couple to shift how you are co-creating, cultivating, and living the love you desire.
You deserve to be seen, heard, and loved…loved for your true self.
This powerful program can get you the love you want and need.
Your love is a gift you get to share together, and ripple out into the world around you.
Your colleagues, neighbors, community, parents, and children will experience you modeling a new way of being and will want to know what shifted and how they can communicate and love like you do.
You are both capable, worthy, and deserving of having a relationship that gives Disney movies a run for their money and has your friends asking “How can I have what they are having?!”
I’m here to guide you.
Here’s what your journey will entail….
- One (1) 60-minute onboarding session via Zoom
- Six (6) private 60-minute couple coaching session via Zoom
- One (1) 60-minute closing & visioning session via Zoom
- One (1) 60-minute individual coaching session per person via Zoom (2 total)
- WhatsApp support
- Private training videos taught by Eri
- Curated Date Guides for deepening your relationship with yourself and your partner
- Weekly videos and tools to enhance your experience
- Resources Library
FAQs
But how do I know this will work for me?
What if my partner does not want to be coached?
Sometimes one person is ready to step into a coaching program while the other person is not fully open to this level of vulnerability. This is quite common and understandable in a culture where we are taught to repress our emotions, and where we are taught that getting professional help for relationships means that you are broken. If your partner is not ready to talk about your relationship with a coach and learn how to create more ease in the relationship, this is common and it is not their fault.
However, making the shift into co-creating a healthy and long-lasting relationship does mean leaning into the discomfort and trying out a new way of being. This program is designed for those that are courageous enough to take that guided step. Most people do not respond well to being forced into something. Relearn Love is for people who are ready to choose to make this change. We ask for a commitment to your own journey. We are here to guide you, give you tools that work, and help hold you accountable, but both of you are responsible for your own success – and it all starts with choosing to step into this together.
If your partner is not ready for relationship coaching, we recommend that you tap into our free resources (such as the free video series on navigating conflict) to begin working together and building trust in working with professionals. In addition, you can also get relationship coaching as an individual. There is always a ripple effect, and your partner will notice the positive changes and desire more. Plus, the tools we teach you can be shared privately with your partner in the comfort of your own home when you feel the time is right. This can open new opportunities to discuss working with the Relearn Love team and getting results faster and transformational support.
How will we meet during this program?
Will everything shared in our sessions stay private?
Yes! Our work is like Vegas, what happens here stays here. From the moment you officially join Relearn Love, everything is kept completely confidential. Eri has worked with top executives, Hollywood actors, politicians, and Olympic athletes and upholds a strict policy around confidentiality which is covered within her Client Agreements prior to beginning work together.
– Ryan Allis
CEO and Founder of SaasRise
Asheville, NC, USA
“Eri is absolutely awesome. She has a way of connecting with people with such ease. Before I even knew it, I was discovering things about myself that I didn’t even know were holding me back for many years. I didn’t realize how much I was stopping myself from being my true self. My kids have seen a difference just in how my attitude has changed and that I am focusing on being happy. My husband has seen the change because I am more about being not just happy myself but together. My husband and I had an absolutely amazing date, which we haven’t been on one in over 2 years! Working with Eri has helped me feel empowered, curious, and alive again as a whole woman – not ‘just a mom or wife’”
– Angela Zender Moyer
Michigan
“I am so stoked to work with Eri because she opened up the doors for me to do my emotional work. I was able to hang in during the darkest moments when I felt I was ready to give up and able to show up for my work only because she found a way to guide me safely and with curiosity through the journeys I have with my partner and with myself. I never realized that such a depth of work was even possible. Thank you, Eri!!!”
– Vi & Rish
Attorney & Tech Founder, San Francisco
“I just wanted to take a minute to say thank you. I’m so very grateful for you and for what you’ve been in my life. I’m blown away that somebody I have never met in person, high-fived or hugged has had such a personal, intimate and profound impact on my life. I’m so grateful for you. Thank you for all of the things!!!!”
– Steven, CEO
Your journey begins when you schedule your FREE Relearn Love Possibilities call with a member of my team, where they’ll make sure you’re a great fit for Relearn Love and walk you through the simple next steps to begin your journey of co-creating the relationship you desire.
“I loved learning about topics outside my comfort zone and having the love/support not to feel uncomfortable or judged about anything. This was a beautiful experience, and I’ve learned so much.”
– Michelle
Colorado
“Eri shared resources and experiences to help grow our relationship, a.k.a. “Sally”. She gave us tools and homework which help us truly hear each other and nourish our relationship. Eri brought a perspective of experience, joy, and curiosity to our work together that helped us connect in a beautiful way.”
– Crystal, MD
& Steph, MD
Giving Back Through RLL
Love has a ripple effect. It has a way of changing the way we interact with others, and how they in-turn interact with the world around them. Each time we have the courage to model love and gratitude, we are creating positive change and showing up as leaders with heart.
At Relearn Love, we walk our talk. 10% of every investment that private clients make for changing their own lives also transforms the lives of those in need around the world. How? When you become a client we sponsor a child in Bali so that they can receive the clothes, food, shelter, and development they need for a full year.
You can learn more about the Bali Street Mums Project by checking out their website.
Choosing to invest in your own love transformation will have a huge ripple effect on those around you (children, parents, community, and workplace) – beginning in Bali.
Why this organization?
Eri knows Kim, the founder, personally and has seen the incredible impact it has on the women and children of the slums of Denpassar, Bali. Eri and her family have sponsored 7 children over the years and their family spends time with the staff and volunteers who are there day in and day out, healing old wounds and creating a safe environment to break the patterns of poverty and abuse.
Choosing to invest in your own love transformation will have a huge ripple effect on those around you (children, parents, community, and workplace) – beginning in Bali.